7 Mirrors in Relationships

‘Relationships are the mirrors in which you discover yourself’ – J. Krishnamurti I was conducting the ‘Tao of Facilitation’ with Anuradha Ramesh of Pink Mist Retreat, (a wonderful friend and a great facilitator and healer) last month (Feb 2012) and towards the end she shared the 7 mirrors in relationships which spoke so deeply to me- I had seen all of these and continue to see some. 1. Reflection of the Moment: Here-Now (Root chakra, Muladahara- Creativity, Sexuality, the Child) This mirror presents itself when we are with children who demand total and complete attention. When you answer mechanically, they … Continue reading 7 Mirrors in Relationships

What Is Love?

I do my best to be a learner, a facilitator, a friend, a father, and until some time back, a husband, a son and more. I have experienced the high and low of emotions- lots of sadness, fear, sometimes anger, sexual feelings, happiness and more. And continue to, maybe in subtler ways and sometimes quite gross also. I meet many young people who are contemplating marriage and grappling with relationships- which many of us “relatively grown up” folks also do! As the whole institution is getting shaken up, life is inviting us to examine this vital question: What is love? … Continue reading What Is Love?